What Did Jesus Say About His Family?

“What Did Jesus Say About His Family?” 

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What did Jesus say about His family members?


And also – another important question - What is your host’s favorite teaching of Jesus?   As you may have noticed, I try to start these audios off with a Focus Question, and so today, my focus question is a lot on Jesus and a bit on myself. What is my favorite teaching of Jesus? Well, And when I say my “favorite scene” I mean that it is one of my favorite of Jesus’s teachings because it speaks directly to us about how Jesus views his followers and what Jesus says gives me so much comfort and rest and even joy. 

OK, so I want to set this up – because it is truly so special to me, and I hope it becomes special for you too.  It's a really short scene. Not too much information is given or is happening in this scene, there is a little background, but not to much.  The focus in this is on what Jesus said. And I often wonder, “Why did they even put this scene in?” I think maybe because it made the people who were following Jesus feel so important and so comforted – just as it can for us today.

Anyway,  I am so happy that Mark  felt that what happened here was significant enough to write down and to pass it down so that it can be shared with us today… two .thousand years later. 


There is just a little background. In our teaching last week, we looked at one of Jesus’ first miracles when he healed the leper. He also performed more miraculous healings, and so word got out all over the area about him. So Jesus would get swamped by people when he walked through the towns. Some of the people were coming to him for healings or just to see him and hear him. Others were coming to accuse him of being a mad in the head or even of being possessed. And Jesus could  be invited into homes in order to get a break from the crowds. This scene takes place - Jesus has just gone inside a home with his disciples and others, and he was continuing to teach in there. But there were crowds still outside all around the home, many of them wanting to get in. Then we are told that Jesus’ mother and his brothers came, and they were outside the home. In Matthew it tells us a little more specifically that his mother and brothers could not get inside because of the size of the crowd outside.

So here is the passage, or the scene as I sometimes call it.  It is from Mark 3: 31 to 35.


“And his mother and his brothers came, and standing outside, they sent to him and called him.--”


“And a crowd was sitting around him (around Jesus). And they said to him, 'Your mother and your brothers are outside, seeking you.' And he answered them, 'Who are my mother and brothers?' And looking about at those who sat around him, he said, 'Here are my mother and brothers! For whoever does the will of God, he is my brother, and sister, and mother.'” (Mark 3:31-35)


Jesus said, “Who are my mother and my brothers?” Who? And looking at those who sat around him –


His disciples were there. But Mark tells us that there were also others there around Jesus too. He said, “Here are my mother and sisters and brothers!” And he was pointing to the people that were listening to him, who were staying close to him, who were learning from him, and following him. And then he says, “Whoever does the will of God; he is my brother and sister and mother.”

I also want to add that I chose to read the verse in Mark, because it clearly documented in the Greek that the prompt from the people was “Your mother and brothers are here;” however the final response from Jesus included brother and sister, and mother.  In Mark, both words are there in the greek Jesus said whoever does the will of God is my adelphosand adelphi and mother.

So Jesus just said himself – “these people are doing the will of God. They are here. They are my brothers and sisters and mother. My family.”


And I love this, because it is Jesus himself explaining who he considers to be his family. And what are these people doing? This is still very early on in Jesus’ ministry. These people aren't going out and proclaiming him yet. They're not working to build new churches yet. All they are doing at this point is learning and following.  They are merely learning and following and Jesus says….Look…they are my brothers and sisters and mother – they are in the will of God.

Learning…..Gospel Life Learning – that is the whole motivation and purpose of why I began writing over 10 years ago, blogging shortly after, and now creating these “Blog Script” audios. Recently I refined defined in words,  the purpose of Gospel Life Learning ministry, and it is to provide resources to help readers and listeners draw near to God and to have resources to share His nearness with others. 


Learning and following…


That is the will of God….


Learning and following…


Learning what he has to say, and then


allowing that learning….and that relationship to change you




allowing it to prompt you in the ways you go about each of your days.


So we will close with just one reflection today.....


How would you describe your relationship with Jesus today?

Are you his sister, or his brother?


Or is he just someone that you know about or heard about…or learned about sometime ago?


Or is he just someone you learned about and followed – maybe when you were much younger or in a prior phase of life, but you let a whole lot of distance creep in.

I just want to remind you....he's still near. He's still near. He doesn't leave us; we get busy and wander off. He doesn't forget about us; we forget about him. And all it takes, all it takes if there is distance growing in your relationship with the Lord. All it takes is, turning back....listening to and learning from him again, knowing what he wants us to know, and allowing that to change us.


With His Grace, 



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